Digital Escape Planning Guide
CRITICAL SAFETY WARNING
- • If in immediate danger, call 911 or go to nearest safe location
- • NEVER use devices your abuser has access to for escape planning
- • Clear your tracks: Use incognito mode, delete browsing history
- • Trust your instincts - if something feels unsafe, it probably is
This guide provides step-by-step instructions for safely planning digital separation from an abusive situation. It covers secure communication, evidence preservation, creating new identities, and eliminating digital trails. Your safety is the top priority.
Secure Communication Setup
Create secure channels of communication with trusted supporters while planning your escape.
- • Set up new email account using public computer/phone
- • Use encrypted messaging apps like Signal for trusted contacts
- • Create code words with supporters for emergency situations
- • Never use home computer or shared devices for planning
Evidence Documentation
Safely collect and store evidence of abuse for legal proceedings and protection orders.
- • Screenshot threatening texts/emails (include full headers)
- • Document dates, times, and witnesses of incidents
- • Store copies in secure cloud account (not shared with abuser)
- • Give copies to trusted friend or advocate for safekeeping
New Digital Identity Creation
Establish new online accounts and identity separate from your abuser's knowledge or access.
- • Create new email using maiden name or pseudonym
- • Set up new bank account at different institution
- • Get new phone number through safe friends or advocate
- • Use P.O. Box or friend's address for sensitive mail
Digital Trail Elimination
Remove traces of your escape planning and new accounts from devices your abuser can access.
- • Clear browser history, cookies, and saved passwords
- • Log out of all new accounts on shared devices
- • Delete call logs to advocates, lawyers, or shelters
- • Use incognito/private browsing for all planning activities
Safe Digital Escape Planning Checklist
Before You Start (ESSENTIAL)
- Use a safe computer (library, friend's house, work)
- Contact domestic violence advocate for safety plan
- Identify safe places to go (friend, family, shelter)
- Have important documents ready (ID, papers)
Digital Security Steps
- Create new, secret email account
- Save evidence of abuse in secure location
- Change passwords on all critical accounts
- Clear browsing history after each planning session
Need Immediate Help?
If you're in danger, call 911. For confidential support:
- National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233
- RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673
- Cyber Civil Rights Initiative: 1-844-878-2274
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